A type of relation between people which is defined in a binary way: the relation is ‘on’ our ‘off’.  When somebody talks an ‘ex’ boyfriend, girlfriend, man or woman, it is typically about bilations.

I am no computer, I am not binary. My emotion cannot me captured into a quantitative measure, and especially not in two states.

And… I noticed as soon as a relation is ‘switched on’ switching ‘off’ comes often with much pain and misery. So, why switching it ‘on’ at all? Just be happy with the one who is with you. Love.

The opposite of a bilation is a freelation. The nowadays promise on love is the most typical form of a bilation. The freelation marriage variant has been given the name avamarriage.

De Dutch singeress Anouk expresses the bilation / freelation for me very well in this song.

Also expression using possession words point to a bilation at hand ‘my friend’, ‘my man’, ‘my wife’, etc… Well, I am nobodies man… and no woman is my wife…

PS: You can stay with one person in a monogame relation till death seperates you in a freelation manner too, so therefore you don’t need to marry…